Hurting People's Feelings

No matter what happens in a relationship somebody is going to get hurt, and get blamed for everything that went wrong. What people do not understand it really affects the person that get blames for everything.  If people could only agree that it was both party's faults then the hurt should be less hurtful but that is wrong it still hurts just as bad.  Give people a chance and get to know them it might end up being the one you are really looking for.